Hope in the Good
Hope is a powerful thing. Hope can take you to your promise land or an all exclusive trip through hell.
To hope is to believe in the possibility of something you really want. You don’t hope for things that you don’t want badly. This is a good thing until your hoping for something not possible at that moment in time. That’s hoping for something bad to become good.
Hoping for a bad relationship to become good without 100% commitment from both parties, is a pip dream.
When you hope for something that just isn’t possible, you will loose yourself. You will keep stretching yourself because of your hope. You will allow your boundaries to be crossed believing each time, “maybe this will be the thing that makes the difference”.
You will hope until one day you look up and not realize how you managed to be in the situation you are in. You then ask yourself the question that has started many people down the path to Adulthood. “What The Fuck Am I doing?”
In that moment you realize that your hope has turned to daydreaming. You have convinced yourself that what you want is possible, despite the odds and the large amount of evidence to the contrary.
Everybody plays a fool sometime, there’s no exception to the rule.
When this happens to you, just own it with pride.
There is no pull for personal development when blaming others.
Get your power back by taking 100% responsibility for the results of every situation in your life.
Then and only then will you be able to truly overcome unfavorable experiences.
Keep hope alive, just don’t be blinded by it. Hope in the Good
Trust your intuition, do the most good and be true to yourself.